Friday, June 10, 2005

I always depend on the kindness of strangers....

You might wonder why I'm posting on a you-should-be-out-drinking-friday night. I'll give you two words that strikes terror into the heart of parents everywhere out there:

Car. Accident.

This is not a desperate grab for sympathy, although kind words always appreciated as I am feeling rather poorly at the present hour. You'll see exactly why I hauled my ass from my sick bed to get my brother's computer to work (yes, I have been commanded back to the Mothership for a few days) shortly.

I just happened to be driving to work Thursday morning, as one does. Was perhaps running a little late due to the fact I stayed in bed just a little too long because I was re-readingthetextsexmessagesfromthenightbeforefromtheexfucker. Ahem. So I was driving along the highway, when some fucktard (and that's being nice) decided to pull out in front of me to turn right. The less said about her the better, in case I get all angry again and it hurts to breathe.

So I T-boned her @ 70km, spun, hit her again, then ended up on the other side of the highway in the middle of the on-coming traffic. There must be some sort of God, because all I know is that I was damn lucky I didn't collide with one of those cars. Luckily I wasn't seriously injured either. And, taking all my good grace to say it, luckily the other girl was either. Seriously.

Anyway, my reason for posting this is that an extremely kind woman from one of the houses came out, as did her daugher, and her daughter's boyfriend. She stayed with me whilst I was in what I assumed was stock. She spoke kind, comforting words when I couldn't reach the parents or the Ex-Fucker on the phone. She organised details for the police and helped to grab most of my stuff from the car, which was no easy task considering it was looking like a second bedroom. She invited me into her home to keep me warm, offered me tea or coffee, and even offered to drive me home when I couldn't get hold of anyone to pick me up.

All this from a stranger. I would say (and so would a lot of other people) that I'm a fairly cynical sort of girl (based on past experiences), however, it's little things like this that restore your faith in human kindness. I know that sounds cliched, but I feel an enormous gratitude and debt to this woamn, who put herself out to help and comfort me. It's something that gives me a fantastic feeling, and makes me proud to know that not everyone is so cunty in this world.

As soon as I'm feeling up to it, I've vowed to A) - take some flowers and chocolates to this woman to say thank-you. A small gesture I know, but I want to show my appreciation to her & B) - do something nice for a complete random. If everyone one did something like this....well, maybe we wouldn't need to send white paper in envelopes to people, would we?

And oh, in the veins of your mum telling you to always wear a clean pair of knickers just in case you get hit by a bus, here's a tip: Don't leave porn dvd's on the back floor of your car in case you have a car accident. You have been warned.

11 comments:

DJ said...

Ah ha... I'm a big fan of "Paying it forward" and it looks like you might become one too.
Good to hear you're not hurt, we except for your pride maybe.

Anonymous said...

Ah dude, that sucks. I've had more than my fair share of car accidents caused by complete idiots and can't believe I'm still walking around today. One of them happened on the way home from picking my car up from the smash reparier after being without it for 4 weeks from a previous accident. Hambo was 16 at the time and had to act as the adult because I was going to kill the crunt who hit me with my tyre jack.

It doesn't get any easier the 5th or 6th time it happens either. You still want to kill the idiot.

Hope you're mobile again soon.

- Caz.

Anonymous said...

That sucks, martie. hope you and the car get better soon xoxo

- Desci

Ben said...

Ya poor doll, sorry to hear it. Still, I've had quite a few friends get in accidents over the last couple of years - and not one got such a heartwarming tale out of it.

Also, do I qualify as a complete random? Cos I could do with something nice, namely a juicy wad of 1 dollar bills. (I'm going to Bangkok next month you see)

Martie said...

Thanks peeps (sorry, having a very Guy Sebastian moment).

It seems that saying 'it never rains, it pours', is pretty much on the money. On Saturday, my dog got run over.

Because she's got the tough-ass attitude of her mum ;-), she managed to pull through. Just. I can still see the tyre mark on her tail.

So I need to send out a big 'pay-it forward' thank-you to all at the Southern Animal Referral Centre. Fucking. Lifesavers.

Martie said...

Lighter relief:

DJ: Had to send my dad round to my place to rescue the wizz fizz!

Caz: This is the second car that I've (inadvertantly) written off! If I was travelling to Melbourne's bogan capital, then I'd think about PT. And Hambo, adult? It's just not computing!

Desci: I'm fine, car has gone to car heaven! Leaves me free to pursue a lovely new vehicle that I've had my eye on (more about that later)

Ben: You random! You have more 'trips' than I have hot dinners. What gives??!

Hambo said...

Martie, sorry to hear about your car incident.

I for one have had several close shaves, not just the one Caz mentioned. All of which happened, and I wasn't behind the wheel.

Hell, I remember back when I was a kid, back in Shit Town, I was crossing the highway at Shit Town's only attraction. The road was quiet, and this one car on the road was signaling to turn right. I was way past the turn point. Anyway, I goto cross, asshole turns off the blinker and basically moes me down. Now if I wasn't a fast thinking kid, I would of been in the childrens that night, and my BMX in "BMX Heaven".

Years later when I was 16, I death was knocking at my door again, with a ratt-a-tat-tat. This time, I was in a landrover that rolled 3 times down a muddy-icey road. The cabin was crushed to all hell, and it was for my quick thinking and brave soul that I saved the lives of all in the rover. (My role was turning the engine off in the upside down beast.) For it was for my quick thinking ("Gee should I turn the engine off?"), that stoped a minor traffic accident from becoming a big mess.

I have pictures!

Hambo said...

Really though, they say to remain calm in a situation like that, and thats what I do best.

Then its computers.

Jamie said...

Calm, Schmalm. The last bloke that ploughed into a car I owned got a bit frightened when I put an extra dent in his front quarter panel - with my fist.

He got out of his car with whack hands and demanded to know what I was doing in the middle of the road. At a red light. Obeying the red light. When he slid into the back of my car. With my kids on board.

And then he got all in my face.

So I thumped the car and suggested that he should get back in his fucking car and shut the fuck up.

Oddly enough, he did. Quietly.

Jamie said...

Oh, and sorry to hear about your lousy weekend. Glad pooch is on the mend.

Martie said...

Hack, the bitch is lucky that she didn't come near me....

Fuck there are some idiots on the around.